Back when permed hair was in, and Halle Berry hit the scene.
Me and my mom are really close.
No one really knows you like your mother. She’s seen me grow and evolve. She’s seen me succeed and she’s seen me fall miserably.
Our relationship has grown past mother-daughter into friendship. As least, that’s the lie I try to tell myself.
I figured out what a faker I was after church last Sunday. I had an appointment to plan world domination with one off my business partners later that evening, and wanted to stop by my mom’s house to visit.
I saw Mom at church, and she said she was going straight home. I had a short meeting with the minister (more world domination in the works), and headed over to her house.
When I got to her parking lot, her car wasn’t there.
That’s weird, I thought.
I waited for a few minutes.
Maybe she took another way home, I thought.
What if something happened? I called her cell phone. No answer. Continue reading
I was asked to speak to a group of teen and tween girls about Bullying.
It’s a touchy subject, and it’s more and more pervasive– especially as snarky comments on reality TV get more popular. People “do it for the Vine” and don’t care about the aftermath of hurt feelings.
Sometimes, it’s just that someone isn’t doing what you need them to do, and instead of dealing with it, we bully them to get what we want.
Hurt people hurt others. I was challenged with how to help little girls understand that their hurt feelings don’t have to lead to hurting others even though how they feel affects their whole world.
Bullying stops with you.
I gave them some powerful tools, and a new perspective. The tools you can find here.
Please share the link with anyone who you think can use them.
In a previous post, I spoke about the number one leadership killer.
Although it’s crucial to be aware of that very common misstep that passionate visionaries make, it’s even more crucial to acknowledge a skill that is the backbone of leadership: crowd control.
We’re not talking “police officers on mounted patrol” type action. I’m talking about honoring a group of people who believe in your vision enough to give you their attention.
If you honor them, then you’ll treat their attention like the gift that it is and move them into a place they’ve never been before. That is “crowd control.” To do that, you have to build trust, and build it fast.
One way or another, a vision will attract attention and an audience. If you have a compelling vision, eventually you’ll stand in front of a group of people. It may be a group online, or it might be in person.
A good leader addresses these three types of people in the group in order to build the trust needed to move people where you need them to be:
1. People who have questions Continue reading